A mature spiritual guide will give evidence of several “gifts” or “traits” that have developed in him or her through formation as a spiritual director. 
 

• An ability to hold conversations in strict confidentiality.
• Evidence of a prayerful spirit.
• An ability to listen intently and non-judgmentally to what others say. 
• A steady willingness to wait in silence listening for the Holy Spirit’s voice.
• A capacity for contemplative recollection.

A spiritual director may be someone personally known by the seeker as a Christian of mature faith and wisdom.  Often a priest can suggest someone as a spiritual director.  St. Peter upon the Water is able to offer a list of recommended directors who have been well-formed in the contemplative tradition.  They can be contacted by calling 830-367-5959.